A reader writes: “I am 4 months, 1 week pregnant with twins and boy, this time around is so much different than with my four year old son. There are so many things about this pregnancy that I don’t remember happening at all with my son. My hips have been hurting so bad so that sometimes walking is really uncomfortable. Also in the last few days, I feel like all of my insides are stretching and I can’t breathe! ALREADY! I feel full when I know I’m not. It’s so uncomfortable, I cant stand it. I haven’t been sleeping well AT ALL for weeks, and I’m not even half way there. Anyone relate???? I just don’t know how long I’m going to be able to stand it….. HELP”

Many moms of multiples can relate to this desperation, evoking some of the worst memories from their pregnancy experience. Carrying two or more babies can be downright miserable at times. Aches and pains, lack of sleep, heartburn and the sheer girth of your growing belly combine with anxiety, extra expense and additional doctor visits to generate some truly tough times for mom.

Take heart. The turmoil is temporary. Console yourself with the realization that multiple pregnancies generally don’t last as long, and when it’s all over with, you’ll have two precious babies for the “price” of one. Of course, discuss your concerns with your doctor or midwife and keep them apprised of specific symptoms of pain and discomfort, especially those that resemble signs of preterm labor.

Stop by the message forum and share your thoughts with this expectant mom. Do you have advice to give? Or perhaps just sympathy and encouragement? Take time to let her know.

More Resources

• 7 Ways to Sleep Better During Pregnancy with Twins/Multiples
• Twin Pregnancy FAQ
• What’s the Worst Thing About Being Pregnant with Twins?
• Respond in the message forum.

Forum Friday: Really Uncomfortable Already originally appeared on About.com Twins & Multiples on Friday, January 29th, 2010 at 01:03:38.

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